What’s the worst that could happen

"I fell in love with her eyes"

Or better yet, what’s the best that could happen?!

Sit back a spell and let me tell you a story. Nine years ago, on this very day, I met the love of my life. Here’s how the stars aligned to bring about that wonderful moment.

On July 5, 2002 I went for a motorcycle ride with a bunch of guys I’ve never ridden with before. What’s the worst that could happen? Well, let’s just say it ended badly. Not Super Bad but bad enough. It ended up with me lying in a ditch, with a broken hand, on the way to Mt. Baker and my Ninja lying in a broken heap on the road. ICBC soon wrote me a cheque, which I used to buy a used pickup. Since pickups and country music go hand-in-hand, I found myself listening to the local New Country Music station. (Are you starting to see the domino effect here?) While listening to the radio, I heard mention of 2-step lessons at Gabby’s Cabaret in Langley. I didn’t have anything to do that night and I’d never been to Gabby’s before so I thought “What’s the worst that could happen?”

I got to Gabby’s early. That’s just me. Instead of being fashionably late I tend to be awkwardly early. Hey! I don’t like to miss anything! Anyways…I grabbed a beer and sat overlooking the dance floor waiting for something to happen. Half a beer later a cute woman walks into the bar. I didn’t immediately notice her arrival. (I was watching the empty floor not the door.) After she sat down I noticed her through the mirror on one of the pillars. I thought I was being sneaky but she noticed me noticing her. She got up and started to approach me and I thought to myself “Here’s your chance! Ask her if she’d like to join you.” I then turned to speak to her and…she was gone! WTH?! I swear it must have been 2 or 3 minutes until she reappeared. She sat next to me and asked if I was there alone. I responded “Well, if you sit next to me I won’t be.) Once the lessons started we stuck together. (Being the smooth talker that I am I told her not to squeeze my hand too hard because it was broken! That’s what we playa’s call an ice breaker.) The instructor asked everybody to join up with their partners again and we naturally migrated to each other. Once the live band started playing and the lessons were over Nancy suggested we go to Tim Hortons for coffee and a quieter setting to continue talking.

As it turned out, two of Nancy’s friends had jammed out on her that night but she thought “What’s the worst that could happen?” and came alone.

Sometimes the “worst” thing that could happen turns out to be the “best” thing that could happen!

We are so Happy! We just received our studio sample of our new Prints on Metal product line.

I had the privilege of photographing the Fleetwood Force senior girls’ softball team a few weeks ago. I love how their energy infects me.

Music of the Day: The Archies – Sugar Sugar. I don’t know what it is about this cheesy song but I just love it.

 

Quirky Fact: Every vacation I take a photo of my hat between my feet while lounging in the sun. (If it’s not hot and sunny it’s not really a vacation.)

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Congratulations Tina and Mike

What a wonderful day we had photographing Tina and Mike’s Big Day! They are such a wonderful couple. Tina is extremely organized. Mike is extremely relaxed. During our first meeting all Mike had to offer up was “Whatever you want.” Nancy says he’s a very smart man. They are so perfect together. Tina has a smile that’s contagious whenever she sees Mike. Mike has a look in his eyes of complete love whenever he sees Tina.

This DIY wedding was perfect. St. Andrews Anglican Church was beautiful with their big stained glass window. After the ceremony we headed out to Sendall Gardens in Langley and then to the pier at White Rock for some fun photos. The reception was held at the Langley Seniors Resource Centre and was awesome as usual. Friends did all the flower arrangements and the cake. Tina found the chair covers on Craigslist and everybody chipped in decorating the hall. We did photos for the table numbers during their engagement session. They even had one of their engagement photos on their wine bottles. After a beautiful slide show presentation put together by their friends, and some teary eyed moments during the speeches, (yes I might have shed a tear), the dance party began. Boy, can this group dance up a storm. Anders from Bradley Music did an awesome job of keeping everybody up and grooving.

We wish you all the very best on your journeys through the newest chapter of your lives together.

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Tina and Mike – Sneak Peak

Congratulations to Tina and Mike. Here’s a little sneak peak from Saturday’s wedding.

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True Beauty Radiates

This rant has been brewing inside me for quite some time. Forgive me if it comes out a little disjointed. When I get all ranty about something I’m passionate about it kinda splatters all over the place like a water balloon bursting.

It started when I was either watching something or reading something. (Hey. I’m getting older. I can’t be expected to remember everything.) Anyways… it was about some young models who had just come from a “Go See” interview with their portfolios. They were told that they loved their books and that they should lose some weight and come back. WTF!!! These girls were “maybe” a size 2 or 4. AND they were gorgeous!

I think all women are beautiful. And I think self confidence is super sexy! I wouldn’t tell a full figured woman to lose weight any more than I would tell a slender woman to go eat a hamburger. Above is the latest issue of Vogue Italia. (NSFW: You can see the rest of the photos here.) I applaud them for showing that you don’t have to be a size 2 to be gorgeous. All you need is a little self esteem and you can absolutely rock who you are. True beauty radiates from within. (I’m sure you’ve all met people that appeared nice on the outside but radiated ugly from within!)

So to all you women out there I say this: You are beautiful! Embrace who you are. Let it radiate for all the world to see. Unleash your inner Goddess.

Fleetwood Force girls' ball team

I had the privilege of photographing a local girls’ ball team this weekend. I can’t begin to tell you how much fun that was! They are so full of energy and life. Ain’t nobody gonna tell them they need to lose/gain weight to be someone they’re not. Their beauty radiates from within. So much so I had to wear sunglasses and a cowboy hat!

Music of the Day: My music choices are pretty diverse. Although I have a lot of Country I also like me some Metal. Today I’m listening to my favourite Metal band Saliva. I love “Click Click Boom”!

Quirky Fact: We had a Japanese fighting fish named Sushi. He died. So we bought two more. A male named Wasabi and a female named Ginger. (Can you tell we love irony?) A few months later Ginger killed Wasabi in his sleep. She’s still alive. It’s very Shakespearian.  :)

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Today in a Single Sentence – #Trust30 Day 2

Photography by Geoff Heith

Your genuine action will explain itself, and will explain your other genuine actions. Your conformity explains nothing. The force of character is cumulative. – Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance

If ‘the voyage of the best ship is a zigzag line of a hundred tracks,’ then it is more genuine to be present today than to recount yesterdays. How would you describe today using only one sentence?

“Torres scores and the couch goes wild!”

What more can I say?! I’m a big Raffi Torres (Canucks) fan. Early on in the game I commented to Nancy how awesome it would be if Torres scored the winning goal. With 19 seconds left in game 1 of the Stanley Cup Playoffs. Nancy and I both let out a big scream of excitement!

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15 Minutes to Live – #Trust30 Day 1

I’m starting a new blogging experiment brought on by The Domino Project and Ralph Waldo Emerson called the Trust Yourself (#Trust30) Writing Challenge.

It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

What happens is, every day I receive a subject to think about, and write about.

We are afraid of truth, afraid of fortune, afraid of death, and afraid of each other. Our age yields no great and perfect persons. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

You just discovered you have fifteen minutes to live.

1. Set a timer for fifteen minutes.

2. Write the story that has to be written.

Let it begin…

There’s so much that can be said and should be said in my last 15 minutes. And yet there’s so much that needs to be buried.

You always hear that people wish to live a life with no or few regrets. I really wish this were the case. I have many regrets. I have made many a needless mistake. I count myself fortunate to have turned out the way I have. In my final (virtual) minutes I would pass on a little wisdom. Much of it has been around for a very long time. It’s in hindsight that I now see the value.

  • Mistakes will be made. Don’t let the mistakes define who you are. Instead be defined by how you handled those mistakes. Get up. Look back with a sincere desire to grow. Then forget about the mistake and hold on to the lesson.
  • Follow your passion. Don’t let anybody tell you it’s stupid. It is in follow your passion that you find who you are and feel a sense of purpose and happiness. I’m reminded of a Dr. Seuss quote that’s been floating around a lot lately. “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”
  • Find the beauty. As a photographer I am always looking at the light. Seeing how the light reflects and defines the objects that it falls on. Even on a dark stormy day there is beauty to be found, if you’re willing to look for it.
  • Learn to be happy by yourself and with yourself. This is a huge one for me. I was always looking for something or someone to make me happy. I wasn’t able to find that true happiness until I found happiness in being alone and became comfortable with who I am on the inside. My wife Nancy brings me that special endless happiness. In her smile. In her laugh. (Sometimes with me. Sometimes at me.) During my happy dances. During the quiet moments.

Well… fifteen minutes isn’t a very long time. I’m glad that I have yet another day to look forward to. Tomorrow is Nancy’s day off so I get to spend it all with her! That makes me happy.

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